UMarian 
Ngokufika kwelungu elitsha losapho, abazali, ukongeza ekukholelweni ukuba abantwana babo baya kuzuza ngokufundana, baziva bengakhuselekanga malunga neengxabano ezinokubakho phakathi kwabo. Ukhuphiswano lukhuphiswano lothando lwabazali, into eqhelekileyo kuzo zonke iintsapho… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Abantwana bayo yonke iminyaka bafuna abazali babo bahlale kunye ngonaphakade kwaye kubekho imvisiswano emtshatweni. Kodwa inyani ayisoloko ihambelana nale minqweno. Abantwana abakwazi ukuqonda imiphumo yomtshato ongonwabisiyo kubomi bomntu omdala. Siyazi ukuba ukwahlukana yintlungu enkulu… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Nangona singathanda ukukhusela abantwana bethu ekwazini ukufa, kuxhomekeke kuthi—njengabazali nabantu abadala abanothando—ukubanceda baqonde le nyaniso isisiseko. Sifuna ukubanceda baqonde iimvakalelo zabo baze basombulule uloyiko lwabo ngendlela efanelekileyo yophuhliso. Sifuna ukubanika izakhono ezibalulekileyo ezisisiseko kwi… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Kwiimeko ezininzi (evenkileni enkulu, ekhaya, epakini, njl.njl.) abantwana bethu babonisa iingxaki zokuziphatha, kwaye kwezi zihlandlo ezininzi, abazali abaninzi bagqibela becinga ukuba benza into engalunganga, kuba isebenza kubo bonke abanye ngaphandle kwabo. Bahlala beziva bengenathamsanqa; abanye abazali abaphumeleli kangako kuyo… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Njengoko umntu endisebenza naye uJavier Urra esitsho kwincwadi yakhe (The Little Dictator), ukuba ngumzali kuthetha ukuzama ukukhulisa abantwana kakuhle. Oku kufuna uthando, ingqiqo, ubuchule, ubugcisa, nolwazi. Ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa awungomnqandeki. Ke ngoko, ukuba ngumzali kuthetha ukwamkela ukuba imfundo yinkqubo eqhubekayo, ingakumbi ngezenzo ezi… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Ukufikisa, inkqubo yokukhula phakathi kobuntwana nobudala, iqala ekuqaleni kokufikisa ukuya ekukhuleni kwaye idla ngokugubungela iminyaka eli-11 ukuya kwengama-21. Lixesha apho abantwana bethu baqala ukuzibona njengabantu abadala nabazimeleyo. Ke ngoko, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba lelinye la… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Kweli nqaku litsha, siyaqhubeka sixoxa ngeShantala. Siza kuchaza inyathelo ngenyathelo indlela ekwenziwa ngayo oku. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukoyisa uloyiko lokulimaza umntwana, nokuba ngezandla zethu ezinkulu, amandla ethu, okanye ukungazi ukuba kwenziwa njani. Olu loyiko luya kuphela ngokuziqhelanisa imihla ngemihla nokunxibelelana nomntwana wethu. … Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Ukungenelela kwangethuba luluhlu lweendlela zokuphuhlisa izakhono zabantwana kwasebuntwaneni. Luluhlu lweendlela zemfundo ezikhethekileyo ezisetyenziswa ebantwaneni ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka emithandathu ubudala ukuphucula uphuhliso lwabo, ukulungisa iingxaki ezikhoyo, okanye ukukhuthaza izakhono zokubuyisela. [ Funda ngokugqithisileyo ]
UMarta oneminyaka emibini enesiqingatha ubudala akakaze akuthande ukulala. Ukusukela oko wazalwa, ukumbeka ebhedini yakhe kube yinto enzima kakhulu. Xa "eyivumba", i-alarm yakhe iyakhala aze aqhume iinyembezi ngokungathi usesilarheni. Ngobusuku obunye, emva kokuzama iindlela ezininzi (ukumculela iingoma ngelixa… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
Ukuphulula iintsana yindlela eyaziwa ngokuba yiShantala. Imvelaphi yayo ikwiIndiya, apho ingcali yokubelekisa yaseFransi egama linguGqr. F. Leboyer yabona umama ephulula umntwana wakhe. Ugqirha wachukumiseka ngamandla eentshukumo zakhe kunye neenzuzo ezizinika umntwana, waza wagqiba ekubeni angenise le ndlela… Funda ngokugqithisileyo
