Bazali bathi kukhetha iselfowuni abanokugcina umkhondo wabantwana babo kwaye kuba bengafuni ukuba umntwana wabo azive ecalucalulwa kuba eyedwa kwiqela labo ngaphandle kwakhe. Ukongeza, abanye abazali baxabisa kakhulu iifowuni eziphathwayo kwaye bayabakhathalela kakhulu, nto leyo ekhuthaza abantwana babo ukuba bazifumane ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphezu koko, abazali abaninzi Baye batsiba intambo. ukunika abantwana babo ifowuni ephathwayo ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa, isidlo sikaKrestu, okanye iKrisimesi, ngaphandle kokuhlalutya iziphumo. Kodwa, Kucetyiswa ukuba umntwana wam abe nefowuni ephathwayo ukususela kwiminyaka emingaphi?
Lo ngumbuzo abazali abaninzi abawubuzayo kule mihla. Ngenxa yophuhliso olukhulayo lwetekhnoloji entsha, ngoku kuqhelekile ukuba igumbi lomntwana libe nomabonwakude, isidlali sevidiyo, isidlali seDVD, ikhonsoli yemidlalo yevidiyo, ikhompyutha, kwanefowuni ephathwayo. Unomyayi Iyanda ngokuthandwa phakathi kwabantwana abancinci, isiphelo sophando lwamva nje oluphuhliswe yi- Umbutho woPhando lweeNdaba (i-AIMC).
I-Ombudsman yabantwana Uluntu lwaseMadrid, I-Arturo Canalda, icebisa, umzekelo, ukuba abantwana Musa ukusebenzisa ifowuni ephathwayo ude ube neminyaka eli-13 ubudala. ubudala kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwesi sixhobo kufanele kuhambelane nobudala abantwana abaqala ngabo ukuzimela. Ngaphezu koko, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, yapapasha ingxelo enesihloko esithi Ukusetyenziswa ngononophelo kwezobuchwepheshe obutsha, apho sinokufumana uthotho lweengcebiso, iingcebiso kunye neengcinga ezisivumela ukuba sifikelele ekuthengeni nasekusebenziseni oku kulandelayo kwesi sigaba sitsha sonxibelelwano kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Kucetyiswa ukuba umntwana wam abe nefowuni ephathwayo ukususela kwiminyaka emingaphi?
Ukuthengwa kwefowuni ephathwayo Ingafakwa xa ineminyaka eli-13 ukuya kweli-14 ubudala.ukuqala kokufikisa kunye nenkqubo ye ukuzimela eqala kweli xesha inokuba zizinto ezithethelela ukuthengwa kwayo, nangona isoloko ingaphakathi kwesakhelo esibalulekileyo solawulo lwabazali.
Ngokuphathelele i-dIindlela ezimbini ezikhoyo kwimarike: i-prepaid okanye isivumelwanoUfanele uhlolisise izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga uze ukhethe ukuba loluphi ukhetho olufanela iimfuno zakho. Intlawulo kwangaphambili Oku kuya kuvumela ukuzibamba okukhulu kumntwana (kunokunceda ekunciphiseni ukusetyenziswa kwemali), njengoko umntwana eya kuba noxanduva olulodwa ngemali ekhoyo. Uhlobo lwesivumelwano Oku ngokwemvelo kufuna ulwalathiso olucokisekileyo lwabazali, nangona kwenza kube lula, umzekelo, ukujonga amanani afowunelwe kwifowuni yomntwana. Ithuba lokuba umntwana okwishumi elivisayoNgokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabo, bangazithengela ifowuni yabo kunye nekhadi elihlawulelwayo ngemali yabo, efunyenwe "kwimali abayigcinileyo", "kwiintlawulo", njl.
Ubudala bomntwana, uhlobo lobudlelwane bosapho ukuba uyaqhubeka neengxelo zakhe zabantu abadala, ukuvuthwa kwayonjl., kufuneka kuthathwe njenge izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuvavanya ukufaneleka kolu hlobo lwesenzo.
Es Kubalulekile ukubonelela ngemizekelo efanelekileyo yokusetyenziswa...kwiifowuni eziphathwayo nezisetyenziswa ekhaya. Abazali kunye nabantu abadala abajikeleze abantwana kunye nolutsha akufuneki bafake isandla kwindlela yokucinga "yokuthumela imiyalezo emibini". ukwazi, ukugxeka iindlela ezithile abazisebenzisayo kunye nokuzisebenzisaNangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwemiqathango: iincoko ezinde ezingeyomfuneko, ukusetyenziswa kwekhamera, ukukhuphela kwi-intanethi…
Njengakwezinye iinkalo zobomi, Masifundise abantwana bethu ngokusetyenziswa ngendlela efanelekileyoOku kuya kubanceda ukuba babe nesimo sengqondo sokugxeka nesobuqu malunga nezibonelelo ezininzi abazifumanayo zalo lonke uhlobo. Kubalulekile ukuba neengxoxo rhoqo malunga nokusetyenziswa kwefowuni ephathwayo. kubantwana bethu. Iingozi zokuphendula imiyalezo "engcolileyo". Ukungayisebenzisi ukuthumela imiyalezo engafanelekanga, iirekhodi, okanye iifoto abangafuni ukuzifumana.
Kufuneka ukuba fundisa intlonipho ngobumfihlo bomntu nobabanye abantuUkurekhoda kunye nokukhuphela imifanekiso kufuna imvume yomntu okanye abantu abafunyenwe kubo.
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Ngaphandle kwako konke oku, Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bethu banciphise amanqanaba abo okuvezwa ukuya kumoya ophuma kwiifowuni eziphathwayo entloko: ukwenza iifowuni ezimfutshane, ukuthumela imiyalezo okanye ukuhambisa isixhobo kude kancinci ngexesha loqhagamshelo, njengoko kulapho sisebenzisa khona amandla amaninzi.
Imithombo:
- http://www.colegioinformatico.edu.ar, http://www.craaltaribagorza.net
- Abantwana kunye nabantu abancinci phambi kwezikrini: Imeko yeendaba kunye nobuchwepheshe obutsha bolwazi eSpain kwicandelo lobuntwana kunye nokufikisa, nguGARCIA MATILLA, AGUSTIN kunye noCALLEJO GALLEGO, JAVIER kunye noWALZER, ALEJANDRA
- Ubuchwepheshe obutsha bemfundo yabantwana abancinci kunye neyamabanga aphantsi, nguSIRAJ BLATCHFORD, J
- Umfanekiso: http://www.elcorreo.com, http://www.heraldo.es, www.inteco.es, http://www.emprendedores.es


