Bengivele ngizwile ngendlela ethandwa kakhulu emazweni afana neCanada, esebenzisa ulimi lwezandla ukuxhumana nezinsana ngaphambi kokuba zikwazi ukukhuluma. Kodwa-ke, abazali abaningi banokungabaza ngale ndlela, noma abayazi ngisho. Bengilokhu ngicwaninga le ndlela , izinzuzo zayo, ukuthi isebenza kanjani, kanye nezinkinga ezingaba khona ekukhuleni kwengane, futhi ngingakutshela ukuthi kunezifundo ezisekela futhi zilinganisele indlela ye- Baby Signs njengenhle kakhulu. Lezi zifundo zibonisa ukuthi izingane ezikhuluma ngezandla ziqala ukukhuluma ngaphambi kwalezo ezingakhulumi, zithuthukisa amagama amakhulu kanye ne-IQ ephezulu lapho zineminyaka emithathu. Iphinde iqinise ukuxhumana kanye nesibopho somzali nengane. Kulabo kini ababengajwayelene nendlela ye- Baby Signs noma ababengaqiniseki ngokuyisebenzisa, nansi incazelo emfushane yokuthi isebenza kanjani kanye nezinzuzo zayo.
Isebenza kanjani?
Akumangazi ukuthi izinsana zifunda ukuxhumana ngezandla noma ngezimpawu. Kokubili ukuqonda kwazo ulimi kanye namakhono okunyakaza komzimba kukhula ngokushesha kakhulu kunekhono lazo lokukhuluma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ziyathanda ukulingisa abanye. Isibonelo, izinsana eziningi zifunda ukuvalelisa nokukhomba into eziyithandayo isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba zithi "valelisa" noma "bheka lokho!"
Umqondo wokuhlola kabanzi leli khono lemvelo ezinganeni nokuzifundisa isilulumagama solimi lwezandla uphefumulelwe umsebenzi wochwepheshe wokuthuthukiswa kwezingane uJoseph Garcia. Ngemva kokubona ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuthi izingane zabazali abayizithulu zifunda ulimi lwezandla, uGarcia waphawula nokuthi lezi zingane zibonakala zingenankinga kangako kunezingane ezingalwazi ulimi lwezandla, njengoba zingaveza kangcono imicabango nezidingo zazo. Kungani ungafundisi izinzuzo zolimi lwezandla kubazali abazwayo nezingane? Phela, uGarcia wacabanga ukuthi uma ingane ifunda ukukhuluma ngalokho ekufunayo ngezimpawu zobuso esikhundleni sokumemeza, wonke umuntu—umama, ubaba, nomntwana—uzojabula kakhulu. Nakuba ukufundisa ingane yakho ulimi lwezandla kungesona isiqinisekiso sokumelana nokucasuka nokuwohloka, kunezingane ezincane ezineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala esezifunde ukusebenzisa lolu hlobo lokuxhumana.
Izinzuzo: Kuthuthukisa intuthuko yokukhuluma.
Abanye abazali bacabanga ukuthi uma ingane yabo ifunda ukuxhumana ngezimpawu zomzimba, kungaphazamisa intuthuko evamile yolimi. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kocwaningo lwamuva nje, okuphambene nalokho kuyiqiniso: Ukufunda ulimi lwezandla empeleni kungathuthukisa ulimi lwengane kanye nesilulumagama. Izimpawu, njengoba uGarcía echaza, zisebenza ekuthuthukiseni, hhayi esikhundleni, solimi. Kumelwe zisetshenziswe kanye nenkulumo ukuze ingane yakho iqonde ukuxhumana phakathi kwezimpawu zomzimba kanye negama. Futhi njengoba ukuxhumana kudinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ikubheka ngokucophelela, ingane yakho izogxila kokubili kulokho okushoyo nalokho okwenzayo. Lapho ingane yakho iqala ukuphendula ngezibonakaliso, ukuxhumana okubili kuyasungulwa. Uma, isibonelo, ikutshela ukuthi yezwa indiza idlula, ungathi, "Uyizwile indiza? Yebo, ngiyayibona. Bheka, nansi! Bekunomsindo, akunjalo?" Ngale ndlela, cishe uzochitha isikhathi esiningi ukhuluma nengane yakho, okungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokukhuthaza intuthuko yenkulumo.
Indlela yokumfundisa:
- Njenganoma yiliphi elinye ikhono elisha olifundisa lona, Kubalulekile ukuhamba ngejubane lomntwana wakho.futhi ukwenze kube mnandi. Isikhathi esifanele sokuqala yilapho ingane yakho iqala ukubonisa intshisekelo yokukhulumisana. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka cishe izinyanga ezingu-9 noma ezingu-10Uzoqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho encane iba nobudlelwano nabantu, iqala ukukhuluma kabi, futhi yenze imisindo nezinkulumo ukuze idonse ukunaka kwakho.
- Qala ngokumbonisa uphawu lwento emthakazelisayo.Izinsana eziningi zifunda ngokushesha uphawu "lokungcono" maqondana nokudla.
- Uma usho igama, yenza nesibonakaliso. Sebenzisa uphawu olufanayo njaloPhinda lokhu izikhathi eziningana, ugcizelele igama elingukhiye njengoba wenza uphawu, ukuze ingane yakho ibone ngokucacile futhi izwe ukuxhumana phakathi kwenu: "Uyafuna?" ngaphezuluUngathanda uku? ngaphezuluAkunjalo? Kulungile, sizokunikeza okuncane. ngaphezulu! "
- Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, ingane yakho ingase iqale ukwenza lesi senzo ngokwayo, nakuba kungathatha amasonto amaningana, ngakho-ke bekezela! Kwenze kube mnandi enganeni yakho. Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ifunde uma ikujabulela lokho ekwenzayo.
- Uma ungathanda ukubhalisa ekilasini lolimi lwezandla lwezingane, uzothola uhlu lwezinsiza ekugcineni kwalesi sihloko. Izinkampani eziningi ezinikeza amakilasi nazo zikhiqiza izincwadi nama-DVD ongazithola ziwusizo. Funa ulwazi kumawebhusayithi azo. web.
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Ezinye izimpawu ongazihlola.
Ochwepheshe abahlukene batusa amasethi ahlukene ezimpawu. Uhlelo lukaGarcía Lokusayina Nomntwana Wakho lusekelwe kuLimi Lwezandla LwaseMelika, kuyilapho uhlelo lweZimpawu Zezingane , olwakhiwe ngososayensi bezengqondo uLinda Acredolo noSusan Goodwyn, lusebenzisa isethi yezimpawu ezilula ezenzelwe ngqo izingane. Noma yiluphi lwalezi zinhlelo luzosebenza, kanye nesistimu ozisungulela yona. Noma yisiphi isenzo esilingisa ngokucacile incazelo yegama sizosebenza kahle, njengokuthi:
- "Ukudla": beka iminwe yakho ezindebeni zakho
- "Kuphelile": phakamisa izandla zakho emaceleni, izintende zibheke phezulu
- "ukwesaba": zishaye esifubeni
- "kushisa": yelula ingalo yakho sengathi uthinta okuthile, bese uyidonsela emuva ngokushesha.
- "Kuphi?": Nciphisa amahlombe akho, izintende zibheke phezulu
- "unogwaja": imibimbi yekhala lakhe futhi iveza iminwe emibili
- "imoto": phendula isondo lokuqondisa elingokomfanekiso
- "incwadi": hlanganisa izandla zombili bese uzivula (izintende zibheke phezulu)
Imininingwane engaphezulu:
- I-Sign2Me, kuleli khasi web Kusuka kuchwepheshe uJoseph García, uzothola izincazelo mayelana nohlelo lwakhe lolimi lwezandla lwengane kanye nolwazi mayelana namakilasi endaweni yakini. NgesiNgisi.
- Izimpawu Zengane Lena yiwebhusayithi esemthethweni yabadali balolu hlelo. Izimpawu Zengane ULinda Acredolo noSusan Goodwyn. Le ncwadi iqukethe ulwazi mayelana nohlelo, kanye nokuthi ungazitholaphi izifundo endaweni yakini. Ulwazi lungesiNgisi, kodwa banezinye izinto ezitholakala ngeSpanishi.
- Iminwe emincane emihlanu Kuyiwebhusayithi evela eSpain equkethe iziphakamiso nolwazi ngesiSpanishi lokusebenzisa ulimi lwezandla nezingane, amavidiyo ezingane ezisebenzisa izimpawu, blogsisichazamazwi sezimpawu nokuningi.
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