El uloyiko lobumnyama ngesiqhelo ukuqala malunga neminyaka emibini ubudalaIhlala ixhaphakile kwiminyaka yamva nje kwaye iqala ukuncipha xa ifikelela kwiminyaka elithoba. Omnye kubantwana abathathu abancinci uyoyika ubumnyama.
Iqala ebusuku xa kufika ixesha lokulala. Ixesha lokulala lihambelana nokuphela kwemisebenzi eyonwabisayo kunye nokuqala kwemisebenzi engathandekiyo; kuthetha ukuyeka ukudlala, ukubukela umabonwakude, ukuba nabantu abadala, kunye nokwahlukana nabazali ukuze ube wedwa kwigumbi elimnyama.
Ukoyika ubumnyama kunxulunyaniswa neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokoyika, njengezidalwa ezimbi ezicingelwayo, izilo, amasela, ubulolo, ukwahlukana, njl.
Amaphupha amabi kunye noloyiko lwasebusuku Zihlala zibonakala njengeengxaki zokulala ezinxulumene nolu loyiko. Azifani, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuzichaza ukuze zahlulwe.
Amaphupha amabi ngamaphupha amade, awoyikisayoLa maphupha, anomxholo wawo ugxile kwimingcipheko yokusinda okanye ukhuseleko lwawo, adla ngokubonakala phakathi kweminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemithandathu ubudala. Xa evuka, ahlala ephaphile kwaye ekhumbula kakuhle amaphupha awo.
Uloyiko lwasebusuku luvuko olukhawulezileyoEzi ziganeko ziqala ngokukhala okanye ukukhwaza xa ukhathazekile kwaye zihamba neempawu zoloyiko olukhulu. Umntwana uhlala ebhedini ngequbuliso enoloyiko. Akaphenduli kwimizamo yabazali bakhe yokumvusa nokumthulisa. Ukuba bayakwazi ukumenza alale, uyadideka aze adideke imizuzu embalwa. Uloyiko lwasebusuku luqheleke kakhulu kunamaphupha amabi. Lunokwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka emine ukuya kwelishumi elinesibini kwaye ludla ngokunyamalala lodwa ngexesha lokufikisa.
Iindlela zokufumana nokugcina:
Inyaniso yokuba ukoyika ubumnyama kuxhaphake kakhulu kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi kungenxa yezizathu ezininzi:
- UmbuthoEbumnyameni, amava amabi obuntwana ahlala esenzeka. Umntwana ufumana amaphupha amabi aze avuke ekhala ezinzulwini zobusuku. Umama wakhe ungena ngokukhawuleza aze avule isibane ukuze abone ukuba yintoni ingxaki. Oku kumisela unxulumano oluphindwe kabini: Ukukhanya-Umama-Ukhuseleko
- Isimangalo: Inkwenkwe ibukela ulwaphulo-mthetho kunye neemuvi ezingaqondakaliyo apho iziganeko ezinobungozi, ezinje ngokuphanga okanye ukuxhwilwa, zenzeka ebumnyameni. Umbulali wenza ulwaphulo-mthetho lwakhe ngobubi obucingelwe kwangaphambili.
- Ukuhanjiswa kolwaziAmabali abantwana adla ngokuquka izinto zokwandisa umdla womntwana. Enye yezona ndlela ziqhelekileyo zokubonisa iziganeko eziyingozi kukusebenzisa ubumnyama: "i-ogre yayihlala emqolombeni omnyama kakhulu," "abantu ababi babezimela ebusuku."
- Inzuzo: Abazali bahlala ebhedini yomntwana wabo ebusuku baze bamonwabise. Balala egumbini labo. Bayamvumela ukuba angene ebhedini enkulu, njl.
Imithombo:
- Alexander, T., Roodin, Py Gorman, B.,: Ingqondo yokuguquka kwezinto.
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